In this episode of Sex in Berlin, host Nike sits down with Ally Iseman, relationship coach and founder of Passport to Pleasure, to unpack why relationship is a skillset — not a destination. Together they explore the four relationship archetypes, how desire splits into separate emotional and physical planes, and why „we finish each other’s sentences“ is really just another word for interrupting. From novel monogamy and the myth of „the one“ to reframing jealousy as an underused tool for intimacy, Ally makes the case that better relationships at home could mean a better world at large. A conversation about boundaries, curiosity, and why the person you’re dating is not a job candidate.
About the podcast and our guest:
Sex in Berlin
A Studio36 Production
Host: Nike Wessel
Postproduction & Sound design: Vincent Lerche
About our guest Ally Iseman:
Website: https://www.passport2pleasure.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/allyiseman/?hl=de
About Nike Wessel:
LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nike-wessel-73496118a/recent-activity/all/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nike_wessel/
